Join our email list for free US shipping. February is the month for luuurve, but let's face it - you might not be feeling it for any number of reasons. To bring you a shot of awesome, we're proud to feature this guest blog by the inspiring babe Virgie Tovar - author, activist and expert on fat discrimination and body image. Virgie originated the hashtag LoseHateNotWeight, and is currently piloting the lifechanging Babecamp.
How to Have Sex With a Fat Girl
A Fat Girl Talks About Her Sex Life – Aisle
F rench auteur cinema has increasingly been exploring themes of sex through scenarios whose explicitness verges on the pornographic. Her film Romance was billed as the most explicit heterosexual art film of its time. Sexual and cerebral, violent and controversial, her work sets out to provoke. The girls have a typical sibling love-hate relationship—one moment insulting each other, the next ganging up on their parents and giggling helplessly. But Fat Girl is no cute teen pic where girls worry about weight, dates, and makeup, and Breillat quickly cuts to the heart of the matter: sexuality. The slow pace of the scenes, their dispassionate style and brutal precision, disengages us, denying eroticism. Her gaze makes us uneasy for two reasons.
My life in sex: 'I’ve been told that, as a fat girl, I should be grateful for attention'
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I was 16, a size 14 and it was — long before body positivity hit the mainstream or my Tumblr feed. Now, as a year-old woman wearing a size 20, the shagging game has changed year on year as my body has gotten bigger and the dating pool has gotten smaller. The latter is the most insulting. In short: it's a minefield. If only someone could write a handy guide